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In order to use the Service, you will be required to log in by submitting your member number which was provided to you by the Medix staff, your name and e-mail address. Once you have logged in, you will be able to upload files to the Service. We will download your files to our system and no copy will be retained on the server used to provide the Service. For detailed upload instructions, please click here.

 

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We take the safeguarding of your information very seriously. In order to prevent unauthorised access or disclosure of your information we have put in place appropriate physical, electronic and administrative procedures to safeguard and secure the files you upload to the Service. However, no method of transmission over the internet, or method of electronic data storage is 100% secure and while we have put in place appropriate protections, we cannot guarantee the security of information you upload to the Service.

 

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While we make reasonable efforts to provide the Service, it is provided "as is" with no representation, guarantee or warranty of any kind as to its availability, functionality, that it will meet your requirements or that it will be free of errors or viruses.

 

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我告诉他:“我是来说再见的”,他说:“我知道你会来。”所有人都希望得到他们亲人的再见。你要怎么做才合适呢?

        

      正视生命的有限性从来都不是容易的事。这是临终病人及其家庭都能体会到的困难。

 

      在听到噩耗后,留给患者本人的是自我消化自身情况、反省人生和试图完成某种结束仪式的有限时间。另一方面家人和亲戚经历着一样的情感过程但同时需要适应患者的心理和情感需求。在这样的前提下,重要问题都被回避了,并且几乎达不到真正的接受。

 

      Randy Pausch在他的讲座中试图从患者角度解决这一问题,该讲座被称为“最后的演讲”。

 

       Pausch是匹茨堡卡内基梅隆大学的计算机学教授,被诊断为晚期胰腺癌,他还有不到3个月的寿命。

 

      在他的讲座中,他指导听讲者如何去完成儿时梦想。在准备讲座的过程中,Pausch创建了一张重要的清单,上面列出了所有他珍视的东西。这一确认过程使他可以平静地向所有他爱的人道别。

 

分离与遗憾

 

       离别是困难的。这意味着直面我们否认死亡的本能,这本身就需要实质的情感成熟。同时,这体现了个人情感成熟和发展的最终机会。 

 

       就肿瘤病人而言(也是我每天专门治疗的对象),这是一个独立发生在无数层面的多方面过程。由家人、朋友、乃至负责他治疗的医疗团队组成的错综复杂的关系贯穿患者的生命全程。

 

       这些关系性质不同,并以其不同的亲密度为特点。很多时候患者可以和他的伴侣诀别却没办法克服其他情感障碍,这些情感障碍妨碍了他与治疗团队建立亲密性的能力。在其他例子中,患者或许没办法取得自身的内心平静。谁该首先开始这个过程呢?谁是最适合引导和支持患者走过这一情感历程的人?这两个问题都没有明确的答案。

 

      几周前,我的一名病人的伴侣找到了我。这名病人是一位不久前因肺癌过世的中年男子。这两位在结束他们失败的婚姻后一起生活了一段时间。化疗和放疗没有起效,这名病人比预期更快地输了这场战役。

 

      在他生病的全程,她决心要全力保持“完美”的关系。这种定义阻碍了他们探讨更深层次的艰难情感话题,于是在他死后,她感到一种严重的诀别缺失。她在失望痛苦中找到我,拼命地寻求一种可以完成她和她爱人间残存的情感琐碎的方式。不幸的是,这种醒悟来的太晚,试图调和这种局面是徒劳的,留给她的只有遗憾。

 

致临终病人的话:

 

       尽管告别在我的工作中很常见,但我绝不是一名告别专家。虽然告别频繁出现在我的工作中,但这没有减少我需要和某位病人告别时的矛盾感。不久前,我治疗了一位患有超高侵袭性肿瘤的病人,他的肿瘤已经扩散到了前列腺、骨头和大脑。快速的脑肿瘤转移导致了生理功能的急剧下降。很快我就无能为力了。

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